Hi again, I think your right about subjectivity, Im one of those people that listen to every knock or whine and then want to forensically drill down to find the cause,drives the wife mad. I have considered a broken spring but we've had two Mot's with the car, both main dealers and different ones at that so whilst I dont like leaving it to " professionals" I've had to of late.
I might mention it next time it goes in for servicing.
Funny you should mention 3 series Bmw's, one of my favourite cars that I've owned was a 320d auto touring estate, not "m sport" It was on 2003 plate when i acquired it around 2014 with 130k on clock, had full main dealer service from new and I looked after it, it drove like new still, never let me down in 5 years until I ( must have been the wifes fault somehow ) filled it with £50.00 worth of petrol and didn't realise it. started running lumpy, swapped injectors, swapped everything, tried everything and eventualy took it a specialist BMW guy, he swapped injectors again, I went to see him and found him with his foot to the floor gunning it like crazy to try and clear the misfire, all to no avail. I got it back again and found a petrol receipt in the car!!!!! Friend of mine owned a garage a long way from home, he drained the tank, refulled it with diesel. still lumpy as ****, we switched the fuel pumps there are two on some 3 series models, I spent a fortune trying to get it right but eventually gave up the ghost and weighed it in.All down to my own stupidity, still hurts to this day. Recently I considered a much newer 320d, drove one and didnt like it, ride was harsher than mine, everything seemed less quality than my older mark and it seemed very low, strange as I've got older, cars have got more difficult to get in and out, must be the design, eh?
Which brings me to the best cars I've owned or driven,Mitsubishi Pajero, ( had 3 ) absolutely beautiful bit of kit, the 2.8 would go through a brick wall, a good one is so reliable, so comfortable, the drive position elevated as it is allows such a view from the drivers seat. Subaru Forester ( I stil have ) 2.5 Boxer engine on board, ugliest car I've ever owned, mines on a 2005 plate and drives without paralell in my opinion. such comfort and quality, very difficult to find in newer cars. Put your foot down and your head hits the head restraint, probably the fastest throttle response to any car Ive ever owned and that includes a porshe. lastly would be my old Jaguar xj6 4.2l auto. pulled it from a scrap yard where it had sat for over two years, I had my own engineering workshop, so I or one of the lads would jump on it if thiings went quiet. Replaced and repaired everything, it had been rolled with remarkable light damage, the fuel pumps drain and are a bugger to bleed but came the day when we turned the key and second spin of the key she burst into life with that twin exhaust roar and purred like a kitten within seconds, what a feeling that was. Drove superbly and never missed a beat, kept for several years without any faults, sold it to a friend of mine who bought it for his wife and from the start had nothing but grief, breakdown after breakdown. He almost gave it away in the end, so back to subjectivity, everyone sees things differently as their experineces differ dont they. to me one of the best ever, to him one of the worse ever and we are both right really.
Anyway, thanks for all the advice, all taken on board, I have a list of things to try now, just have to convince "er indoors " to let me do it. Motty